Transitions can be tough—for any child. But for autistic kids, even small shifts in routine can feel overwhelming and lead to meltdowns, shutdowns, or refusal. As a BCBA who works closely with families, I see this every day—and I want you to know you’re not alone. In this post, I’ll explain why transitions are so hard for autistic children (it’s not just “bad behavior”), and share simple, compassionate strategies that actually help.